Romantic Gifts, Relationship and romance advice.

25 Days of Romance - Day 16

2009-12-18T08:12:00.000-08:00

Romantic Ideas for Men

Draw her a warm bubble bath. Wash her back (& everywhere else). Take your time. Then towel her dry and carry her off to bed. Find Romantic bath items here.

Give her a full body massage without expecting anything in return. You’re sure to get your reward the next night! We have a special Massage Kit to use.

Little things go a long way. Hold her hand, link her arm through yours while you’re walking together, place your palm on the small of her back when standing beside her. Those tender gestures won’t go unnoticed.

Brush her hair at night. This can be very sensual. Be sure to use a brush, not a comb. And don’t pull. Be gentle. If you encounter a tangle, hold the hair above the tangle, then work it out.

Tell her you love her. Seems obvious, but many men overlook this. Women like to hear it. Often. Make her an audio tape and secretly slip it into the player or on her ipod for her to find.

25 Days of Romance - Day 15

2009-12-18T08:09:00.000-08:00

Romantic Ideas for Women

Do something different. Instead of a massage, graze your nails lightly down his bare back (if you have good nails). It will send shivers of pleasure through his body.

Let him pick one fantasy a month for you to fulfill. Make up a list for him to choose from (that way the fantasy will be something that you’re not opposed to). Then plan it out as an official “date.” Get some ideas for your list here.

Have some sexy (but tasteful) pictures taken and give them to him as a gift. It’ll be something unexpected and special–meant for his eyes only.

Personally write him an erotic story. He’ll see a new and exciting dimension to you after that.
Put on some sexy clothes, turn on the music, then slowly strip the clothes off layer by layer while he watches.

25 Days of Romance - Day 14

2009-12-15T08:33:00.000-08:00

More Simple Romantic Ideas

11. Drive for an hour or two just to have a picnic or stop at a restaurant you've never been at.

12. Name a Star together. When you're apart you can look up at your star and know someone is out there waiting for your safe return.

13. Use glow in the dark stars and a black light to create a romantic night sky inside.

14. Create a spa atmosphere at home. Candles, essential oils and burners, mood music and massagers or other relaxation products can be purchased at almost any department store or bath shop. We also have them at Romance365.

15. Godiva, the fine chocolate maker, has developed wonderfully tasting chocolate liquor. Use wine glasses to serve it for dessert.

16. On a special night, dim the lights and put on soft music. Then, undress leaving a trail of your clothes from the front door to the bedroom; just before your love is about to arrive home.

17. Sit by the fire together roasting marshmallows.

18. While your love is taking a shower, sneak in and write, "I love you!" on the steamed mirror.

19. Make a puzzle of a love letter or brochure for a surprise getaway. Send a piece to your love everyday until it's complete. Or leave a piece on the table or dresser everyday.

20. Make a tape recording asking your love to meet you somewhere or tell them how much they are loved.

21. Next time you're walking anywhere, grab your love's hand or walk arm and arm.

22. Make a "Prescription for Love" on the computer. Fill it out using words like: take two doses of love and come see me now or take with kisses twice daily. Use an empty medication bottle without the label, inside you can fill with heart candies or erotic messages.

23. Plan a surprise anniversary party for your love.

24. Leave a Hershey's Kiss where it will be found with a note, "I'm thinking of kissing you."

25. Just call to say, "I love you," "I'm thinking of you" or "I miss you."

25 Days of Romance - Day 13

2009-12-15T08:15:00.000-08:00

Simple Romantic Ideas - Part 1

1. Bury a time capsule together with trinkets and love letters to each other. Draw a map with an X marking the spot. Store the map in your safety deposit box or in another safe place. Dig it up in 10 or 20 years.

2. Create a music disk of love songs, fun songs or songs that remind you of each other.

3. Plant a post-it note or two in a book your love is reading. Write "I love you," I want you," or "XOXOXO."

4. Go to a photo booth at the mall together. Fool around while having your photo taken. Keep the photos in your car or at work for when you need a fun pick-me-up.

5. Plant a tree together and talk about how you will carve your names in it with a heart in 20 years.

6. Go to a coffee shop - just to sit together and talk. Or get coffee to go - go for a long scenic drive together.

7. Be naughty, play hooky together. Do whatever you want together. (Find some fun items here)

8. Send your love at letter at work. Disguise it in a business envelope. Make it happy for a pick me up, loving for romance and naughty if you're planning a date that evening.

9. Heart shaped notes - use one at a time or 20 at a time. Plant little messages throughout the house or garage to add a thrill.

10. Pick up some dipping chocolate and strawberries or cherries at your local grocery store. This makes an incredibly romantic dessert for two.

See Part Two tomorrow ...............

25 Days of Romance - Day 12

2009-12-15T08:10:00.000-08:00

Give the Most Romantic Gift this Season!

Kama Sutra Sweet Heart Gift Box

Love Never Tasted So Sweet! Available in Chocolate or Strawberry. This heart-shaped gift box is bursting with flavored body treats especially formulated to sweeten intimate encounters. It's also a keepsake box for a future rendezvous!

Chocolate includes chocolate honey dust with feather applicator, chocolate Créme Brulee body souffle and dark chocolate body paint with body brush.

Strawberry includes: Includes: Strawberry Crème Brülèe Body Soufflé, White Chocolate Body Paint with a supple body paintbrush, Strawberry Dreams Honey Dust with feather applicator.

Make your kisses even sweeter this Holiday or Valentine's Day!

25 Days of Romance - Day 11

2009-12-11T13:06:00.000-08:00

Make Your Guy More Romantic

Yes, you can encourage him to be a little more thoughtful. Here's how.

Of course, not all men are in tune with their romantic side. Fortunately, most men are highly trainable, and you can make your man more romantic -- if you proceed carefully. Don't ever pressure a guy into romance. That's a sure turnoff and the most unromantic thing you can do.

Here's what you can do:

Employ the golden rule. The best way to make your man romantic is by example -- but remember, you need to give him romance on his terms, not yours. Pamper him. Do what he wants once in a while -- be it drinking with the buddies, playing a computer game, or just watching TV. A spicy ending to any of these activities will make it all the more memorable. After that, show him you'd appreciate same kind of attention towards you, and eventually he'll put it together.

Take charge. Plan an entire night on the town and let your man sit back and enjoy the ride. Women don't know how difficult it is for a guy to always find creative and fun things to do, especially if you're going out with someone two or three times a week.. So it's romantic when the girl picks out a new restaurant and says, 'Tonight I picked out a new place for us to go, and I'm really excited to go there with you.'"

Turn romance into a game. We suggest that you alternate planning weekly date nights. If you appeal to their competitive nature, a lot of men would put more thought and effort into the evening, trying to outdo their mate.

Let your guy know how much you appreciate little things he does for you -- cooking dinner, walking around to the passenger-side of the car to let you in, buying your favorite candy bar when you feel blue. Show him how much you appreciate it. Bring it up in front of other women so he gets a few oohs! and ahhs!, After that, he'll soon be flooding you with romantic moments!

25 Days of Romance - Day 10

2009-12-10T13:36:00.000-08:00

Tis The Season To Be Sexy

With the stress of the holiday season, often times we forget to take time out for ourselves or our personal relationships. Why not relieve some stress by un-wrapping your own personal present in the bedroom? Perhaps you want to be a sexy Mrs. Claus, or perhaps just be sexy in a long red gown and relax for the evening. The choice is yours! Find your Holiday Lingerie Now

Everyone is worried about being festive why not be festive in a place that is the most relaxing – your bedroom! There are many styles to choose from: Cupless Corsets, Chemise Sets, Babydolls, and MORE! Of course the Christmas Collection comes in different shades of red, maroon, white, etc. Shop online for sexy lingerie

You can certainly try this idea on for size – How about purchasing yourself a piece of lingerie from a Christmas Collection and when time allows around the holidays put this on and wish him a Merry Christmas? You can even put on a bow, and be his personal gift! Once again, get creative with your lingerie especially this stressful time of the year. Get it while its hot!

25 Days of Romance - Day 9

2009-12-10T12:56:00.000-08:00

5 Tips for A Romantic Holiday Get Away

Whether your plan is to relax with massages and mai-tais, or you're hoping for an active adventure rafting and sightseeing... if you're going on a holiday vacation for the first time as a couple, you'll want to steer clear of stresses that can ruin your time together. Use these five helpful tips for romantic getaways.

Romantic Getaway Tip 1: Have a laugh
Odds are, at least one thing will go wrong during your time together -- ranging from lost luggage to a bad sunburn -- and at some point, you will have to be flexible if plans change. You'll get to know a lot about your guy (his temper, and his drinking habits) when you see how he reacts to these glitches. If you accidentally order the $300 bottle of wine thinking it was $30, it's reason to be annoyed -- but don't let it ruin the remainder of your trip. Save money the rest of the time by hosting romantic picnics in your hotel room.

Romantic Getaway Tip 2: Consider him a manly man
Being on vacation together for the first time should help you to see how your interests overlap. But a word to the wise: don't use your man as a replacement for your girlfriends. Even the best of guys have limits. Respect the fact that the same way watching him pick out power tools or video games bores you to tears, he may not love everything that's pink. So if you're looking for a vacation that is a mani-pedi extravaganza, take it with the girls, not your guy. Try to plan equal opportunity activities that you'll both end up enjoying.

Romantic Getaway Tip 3: Bring snacks
The old saying that the way to a man's heart is through food holds true where travel is concerned. It's also a method to make your guy way less cranky. When you're sightseeing, you never know when a half hour line or waiting for a table may push a few buttons. If you carry a few protein bars, some nuts or a piece of fruit in your purse, he'll not only love you for it, but it may help avert World War III with a restaurant hostess.

Romantic Getaway Tip 4: Factor in some "me time"
Okay, it's understood that you might just have to try on the swimsuit you passed by in a shop window -- hey, you're only human. This is what "me time" is for. While you shop for an hour, it will allow your guy some time to check scores, read the news, go for a run, whatever he wants to do…with the promise that you'll model any of the new items you purchase.

Romantic Getaway Tip 5: Sex it up
What fun is vacation with your guy if you can't get back to why you love one another in the first place? From flirty little gestures while you are sightseeing to taking one day out of your trip to do nothing but enjoy the view from your hotel room, vacationing one on one will no doubt bring you closer as a couple. Plan ahead - order a romantic gift basket to be sent to your holiday destination - or pack a little something you purchased ahead of time in your luggage for a surprise later! A few ideas you might consider, romantic massage kits, massage oils, toys, or whatever you like.

For many couples, this will be the first romantic trip of many. And we have heard , and instinctively know, that compromise and planning are key to any relationship. Most importantly, have fun!

25 Days of Romance - Day 8

2009-12-10T12:39:00.000-08:00

Thanks to the crazy weather we have been without internet connection for two days. So you are going to get 3 posts today. Enjoy.

Planning A Romantic Evening

Women like romantic dates and unfortunately some men have no clue how to arrange one. If a guy knows his date would love to have a “perfect evening,” what does he to do accomplish it? A lot depends on the woman and what she likes.

The first thing a man needs to do when planning such a perfect evening is to consult her friends. Women tell each other everything, and chances are, she has talked to them about what she would love to do on a date. A smart man will see his girlfriend’s companions as his first and best source of information.

Find out if she likes flowers, and if so, what kind. Not every woman loves red roses. Some prefer yellow, some like daisies, some would rather have a gift basket. Whatever the form the bouquet needs to take, the man should arrange to have it made up in advance.

He also needs to think about dinner — her preferences, not his. This is not a time to be close cheap either. If she likes fine dining, get out the credit card. Not all women like this kind of atmosphere, but if she does, he should accommodate her, and should tell her they are going to a nice place where she will need to dress up, and he will will do the same. In any event, the dining should be something he knows she likes.

If the weather is pleasant, and he knows she likes that kind of thing, a moonlight picnic is also very romantic. He should bring a nice selection of goodies and a couple of quilts — one to sit on, one to snuggle under. The batteries in his CD player should be fresh and he should bring along some romantic music to play.

What the couple actually does on the date is determined by what they like to do. Do they enjoy plays, concerts or movies? One suggestion is for the man to clean up his place and rent some nice movies. If this is a true romantic date, you may want to have some romantic gifts ready for her.

Now we have assumed that the man will plan the date. If, however, the woman wants to plan something romantic, she has a lot of options, as well. She should be bound by the same rules as the guy, and should talk to his friends about his movie preferences and that kind of thing.

If the woman cooks, few things win their way to a man’s heart like a home-cooked meal. Call it old-fashioned, but there it is. The woman should cook something she is familiar with and has cooked before. This is not the time to try new recipes. New recipes tried under stress invariably fail. She should think of comfort food her guy likes. She should also do as much as she can in advance, so she has less to do the night of the date. She can do all the chopping, peeling and preparation ahead of time, so that all is left to do is the actual cooking. It does something to a man when he walks into a home that smells deliciously of good food cooking.

There is no one “template” for a perfect romantic evening. Much depends on the couple’s individual preferences. However, careful planning, with an eye toward pleasing the other half of the couple, will usually result in an evening filled with good memories.

25 Days of Romance - Day 7

2009-12-07T12:08:00.000-08:00

Sexy Stocking Stuffer Gifts for the Holidays

Whether it's the perfect stocking stuffer for your new lover, an (appropriate) sexual themed gag gift for the office Secret Santa, or a small reminder that the holidays aren't just about family-rated fun, here is a line-up of new and old favorites to suit shopping budgets great and small.

Kama Sutra Strawberry Dreams Weekender Kit
These small-yet-potent indulgences from Kama Sutra are as flavorful and aromatic as a luscious berry, and they’re ripe for romance any time you desire. Tuck into a pocket, purse, or overnight bag.

The Get Away Kit

Introducing the ideal travel companion. This collection of Kama Sutra products fit nicely into your luggage and carry-on and are perfectly sized under 3.4 oz to meet the flight regulatory standards. You'll have everything you need tucked away within this soft, reusable carrier case, complete with a Kama Sutra logo zipper!

Romantic Massage Kit

Please & Pamper the one you love with the Romantic Massage Kit. Enclosed you will find tropical scented massage cream to arouse the senses and tealites to create a relaxing candl lit setting. Share the muscle soothing back massager and playfully explore the intimate and sensual massage techniques provided in the mini massage guide. Express your love through touch for an unforgettably romantic massage experience.

52 Weeks of Romance

52 Weeks of Romance. holds a year's supply of scratch & win cards with romantic I.O.U.'s, suggestions, coupons, roll plays, gestures & more...

Milk Chocolate Body Paint
Enjoy the sweet pleasure of a single chocolate body paint. For those who have been tempted by their creative side, indulge your artistic muse with this decadently rich body paint.

Flavored Body Dust

This Body Dust is a sweet, lick-able, body shimmer powder that leaves your skin glowing with a glittering, golden sheen that smells and tastes just like its sweet namesake. Simply apply to arms, legs, shoulders, and decollete. Place anywhere you want to be kissed! This is one of the best tasting ALL NATURAL body dusts around and can be used safely during oral sex or on any part of the body.

Pheromone Candles

Themed candles with Pheromones for sensual arousal. Hand-made special paraffin was blended with lead-free wicks.

Finger Fun Vibrator
This splashy waterproof vibe slides discreetly on one finger and is made of clear, pliable jelly rubber with a textured finish. We were excited to see such a well-designed new toy that's great for solo use and partner sex.

Women Black Satin Bustier corset Bra Top
A really sexy black satin bustier/corset bra style top, with gorgeous open criss cross detail running down both sides, and typical hook and eye corset style fastening at the back. Really accentuates the cleavage and curves.

Sex Toy of the Month Club

Send a new sex toy every month. Each monthly toy is sent with a customized message card (if requested) - all shipped directly to the recipient. Sign up today and let Romance 365 take care of the rest!

25 Days of Romance - Day 6

2009-12-06T20:48:00.000-08:00

The UpSide to Being Single During the Holidays

OK, I know we are talking about 25 Days of Romance, but you can romance yourself as well. I want all the single guys and gals to realize that you can have a fun and romantic holiday, even if you are not with someone special.

No need to feel sad about being single during the holidays. In fact, you should be happy that you can do what you want, when you want!

Contrary to popular belief, couples and families do not have a copyright on holiday cheer.

What do you think are the biggest benefits of being happily single during the holidays? Besides getting to kiss anyone or everyone under the mistletoe, (a pretty big plus, anyone would have to admit) here are a few more singles-only holiday perks:

No arguments in the car about who said something stupid to whom at the family party.
Not having to wake up at some ungodly hour to open gifts and pretend I'm surprised or elated.

Decorating the tree in green, pink and purple bows if I feel like it... or not at all.

Not having to coordinate everything with a lazy husband who made us late everywhere we went, then just fell asleep on the couch wherever we were.

I can go shopping and completely avoid Home Depot and the golf store. Plus, I can hit every store I want without hearing the whine, "Do we have to go in here?"
Spending less money and anxiety on trying to find that "perfect gift." I can buy myself something instead.

Because I'm single, I still get as many presents from my mom as I did when I was a kid. As soon as I have kids, I'll get an ugly sweater and slippers from her, and nothing else. I know, because I've seen it happen to my older sister!

More time to spend with my family and friends, and less stress trying to juggle multiple families and expectations. I can spend however much I want, have dinner wherever I want and spend Christmas wherever I want, rather than spending time with people out of obligation.

I don't have to watch the Christmas football games. Instead I can sit down with a glass of red wine and watch the "What Not to Wear" marathon all afternoon.

I have more energy and time to put into doing good in the community. Last Christmas morning, I volunteered to serve food at a local restaurant that put on a huge spread for homeless people in town. It made me so grateful for everything that I have in life — which is a lot.

I don't need a partner to have fun!! I can satisfy myself anytime I want with whatever makes me happy!! I can buy myself a romantic gift that I like!

All in all, being single during the holidays does not have to be a lonely or depressing experience. Enjoy being single this year!

25 Days of Romance - Day 5

2009-12-05T17:03:00.000-08:00

Top 10 Romantic Gifts for the Holiday

And the survey says ...........

We have been asking the question "What romantic gift would you like to receive from your lover for Christmas?" to men and women all year long and we have the answer. This is what you said you wanted for Christmas in the romance department.

Women Said:

Something that makes me feel sexy in bed! I don't mean a skimpy piece of lingerie - I mean a mood - tease me - please me - do it slow - and spend time with me. We recommend the kama sutra bedside box or the sweet celebrations box. She will LOVE YOU for it!!
Roses are my favorite!! But the real ones are hard to find or expensive during the holidays. How about some red silk rose petals thrown about on the bed and the floor? Then perhaps you can feed me strawberries and chocolate in bed!! We know what happens next!!
Sometimes he just can't do it all by himself. You know what I mean - women achieve that orgasm long after he is done. She wants something to help you help her. We recommend this item for guaranteed joy on her part!
I want something romantic to open under the tree or in the privacy of our bedroom! A gift basket filled with romantic ideas and treats is just the thing to fulfill this wish. Find them all here.
A massage!! Plain and simple and use something nice - not that junk that sticks to your skin. Kama sutra massage oil is not sticky and it smells delicious. Find all kinds of kama sutra massage products here.

Men Said:

Well, I'm not really into the romance thing - but I'll do whatever makes you happy. Lets make it easy and get the BIG basket with everything in it. We can try it all!!
I am sensitive to your wants and needs. I know you want romance and want me to take care of you. Lets get away for the weekend. Kama Sutra has a nice weekend getaway kit that I can pack and surprise her with when we get there!
I like a good massage also. How about a massage kit that has everything in it?

He wants oral sex!! Make it tasty with this edible gift basket .....

I'm not into romance really, but I do like to play around. So again, whatever you want - I'll give you. The lets play basket is perfect for any occasion.

Men and women differ, but one thing is certain - we all enjoy a good session of fun anytime!!

25 Days of Romance - Day 4

2009-12-04T15:47:00.000-08:00

It takes work to come up with a romantic way to spend an evening with your beloved. But no matter how much work it takes, the effort is necessary to keep the fire of your relationship alive. It certainly keeps the relationship interesting and exciting.

How can you spend a romantic evening with your partner? Here are ten ideas that can work towards the two of you having a great romantic evening.

1. Cook dinner together. Whipping up your favorite dishes together and then eating them by candlelight is the staple of all romantic evenings. Great times always involve great food. If the dinner gets burned, it should not be a problem. You can just order fast-food takeout and eat it with the candles alit, all the while laughing at the disaster in your kitchen.

2. Have a bath together. Fill your tub with warm water and mix in a few drops of relaxing aromatherapy oils. If you have flowers available, sprinkle a handful of silk rose petals on the water. Then, soak in and relax and have a pleasant evening talking with each other. You can also sip wine while bathing.

3. Read to each other. If you are both literary types, get the corniest romantic novel that you own and take turns reading passages to each other. It is always hard to read the corny parts aloud with a straight face. Most likely, the two of you will end up laughing over it.

4. Book an overnight stay at an expensive hotel. If you have the money to spend, go and splurge for an evening at a five-star hotel. Eat at a fancy restaurant, do a couples massage, and sleep in a soft bed with luxurious sheets. It may cost some, but it is worth it.

5. Spend the night at a seedy motel. Seedy motels sometimes evoke the sense of forbidden, illicit affairs. These affairs can be exciting, but what is good about this one is that you are committing it with someone you are actually dating with or married to. We have the perfect gift basket for this trip!!

6. Walk at the beach. If you live near the sea or a lake, go out and walk barefoot by the shore. Talk about nothing and everything as you stroll hand in hand on the sand. If the weather is warm enough, go for a night swim, but be careful about it. The beach can be romantic indeed.

7. Go out dancing. Go to a local disco, jazz hall or dance club and spend the evening dancing. There is nothing more romantic than being able to hold the one you love close to you.

8. Do something new. The beauty of romance is tied closely to adventure. For a romantic evening, do something that the two of you have never done before. Go to a restaurant in a section of town that you do not normally go to or engage in an activity that you have not done yet.

9. Watch the stars. If you have a balcony, a terrace or a patio, spend some time lounging out there and watching the stars. It would be better if you have a telescope around.

10. Do nothing. Sometimes, just hanging out and just going with the flow is the

best way to spend a romantic evening. Let everything be spontaneous and see where it gets you. -
Keep a romantic gift basket at hand for anytime you feel the mood arise!

25 Days of Romance - Day 3

2009-12-03T14:33:00.000-08:00

Consider treating your lover to a special surprise. This year entice her with the warmth and relaxation of a luxurious and sensual bubble bath. Of course, this shouldn't be just any bubble bath. This should be a bubble bath with you. She will simply adore the intimacy and romance that is offered to her. Additionally, there are many things that you can do to make the event more special for her.

Creating the Mood

Creating the right environment for your bubble bath fun is going to be vital. While you are going to have to be in the bathroom that is not to say that you can not transform your bathroom into a magical place for her for just one night. Consider making use of the following items:

Candles (Place them along the tub, on the sink, and or in other safe areas around the room)
Roses/Flower Petals (Resting in vases around the room and or in the bath water with the bubbles)
Music (Choose her favorite romantic music for the evening)
Champagne Wine (Use your best crystal champagne flute to offer her a glass of bubbly)
High Quality Bubble Bath (The event is a bubble bath after all, so make sure you are using the best bubbles you can find in a scent that she loves)

This will create a wonderfully sexy environment for your bath time activity. For best results, have the room completely transformed into this small paradise when she walks in. The bath and everything should be prepared so when she walks in it is only a matter of slipping into the tub.

Beginning the Bath

Once the mood has been set it is time to bring your lover into the bathroom for her bath. If you want to make an impression, take a few minutes to kiss her and tell her your feelings of her. While doing this you can undress her and lead her into the bathroom for her relaxing soak in the tub. Get her initial reaction before saying anything. Lead her to the tub and help her to step into the tub before doing anything yourself. You might find that in the beginning you'd rather stay outside the tub so that you can wash her or that you'd rather let her enjoy the tub while you remain on dryer land.

Bath Time Enhancements

If you're looking to have some fun while your lover enjoys her bath you could easily add some enhancements that will be sure to please her. She will love the thoughtfulness of the gesture because she will not only enjoy the pleasure you give her with these enhancements, she will also be able to use them herself whenever the mood strikes her. You also might want to consider a nice piece of lingerie for when the bath time excitement is over. Something nice to slip into will make her feel sexy and will give you the enjoyment of having something to remove later.

Be creative, have fun, and most of all, make her feel special. Good Luck.

25 Days of Romance - Day 2

2009-12-02T10:04:00.000-08:00

Communicate to find more romance.

Thats right - communication plays a very important part in creating or keeping romance alive. I'm sure we have all been there - we sit and look at our mate and have absolutely nothing to talk about! It's not that we don't love them - we just don't communicate anymore.

Think about how many times a day you converse with your mate? This might be via cell phone texting, e-mailing, the telephone itself or in face to face sharing with one another.

What is the usual energy behind your communicating? Does it tend to bored or “same old, same old”? If so, that dulled energy can begin to seep into your relationship leaving either or both of you wanting more.

It doesn't matter what you are talking with your partner about. What is perhaps most important is how you are communicating. When your energy and engagement with one another are filled with passion and excitement, you can connect in ways that bring you even closer together and keep your spark strong.

My advice - try playing a romantic game! Now I know it sounds silly - and you say - I'm too old for that No you are not! Romance can be achieved by getting to know your lover. Games help, and there are alot of them to choose from.

Stay tuned for more tomorrow ..........

25 Days of Romance

2009-12-01T14:22:00.001-08:00

Today we are going to start a daily series. I believe you can achieve romance with the little things, so that is what we are going to concentrate on. Whether you are in a new relationship or an old one, you need romance! Guys, don't forget this. Us girls love the little things you do for us without asking, the tiny thoughtful gifts. And we love to be romanced.

So today, day one, we are going to talk about what you can do behind the scenes to get prepared for that romantic evening. It does not matter if you are man or woman, you can use the same idea. Start thinking about what your lover likes. Favorite colors, flavors, scents. Write them down.

Now comes the fun part. Start looking at scented lotions, flavored body dust, and other items that will create some fun. We have a great assortment on our website at Romance 365.

Don't worry, this is just a start. We are going to be talking about other things you can do and we will be recommending some products as the month progresses.

Happy Romancing!!

Fun & Interesting Ideas for Rose Petals

2008-09-07T12:41:00.000-07:00

If there's one thing you must have in your romance kit, it's silk rose petals. They can be used over and over again and in many different ways to increase the romance in any intimate setting or during any romantic occasion.

Here are more romantic ideas for silk rose petals than you ever thought you'd want to know. Some are traditional and some are surprisingly fresh. But all are very romantic and sure to add passion to your romantic encounters.

• Spray silk rose petals with your favorite fragrance and put them in dresser drawers.

• Sprinkle silk rose petals in his tool box to seduce him.

• Put a few silk rose petals in a love letter, romantic birthday card, or anniversary card to create a cascade when it's opened.

• Toss silk rose petals on any table or counter top and add a few votive candles for romantic ambiance.

• Mix them with potpourri for a beautiful floral look.

• Hide red silk rose petals on the ceiling fan blades, your love will be showered with them when the fan is turned on.

• Make sure to grab your petals if you're going to be spending the night in a hotel.

• Scatter a path from the front door to the bedroom to lure your love just where you want.

• Put a few in the book or magazine your love is reading.

• Toss them on a picnic blanket for a romantic afternoon outdoors.

• Use the good china, light some candles and sprinkle a few petals on the table for a romantic dinner at home.

• Whether indoors or out, litter the area around the fire place with silk rose petals and roast marshmallows together.

• Strew them on the bed for an intimate evening together.

• Fill a wine bucket with beautiful rose petals and a bottle of wine.

• Spell a message with the petals such as, "I love You."

• Write a special message or sweet nothings on the petals, be as naughty or nice as you want.

• Slip a couple in his pant or coat pocket. Slip a few in her purse.

• Floating silk rose petals . Float them in a fountain.

• Lay them in an outline of a heart or fill it in with more petals to make a solid heart.

• Accent your love's desk with your lovely rose petals.

• Use the silk rose petals as filler for gifts and packages for your love.

• Make a path on the side walk with the petals.

• For a luxurious bath, float them in the tub, don't forget to sprinkle them around the top edge of the tub also.

• Strategically cover your intimate areas with silk rose petals while on the bed, invite your love to join you.
• Float them in the swimming pool, don't forget to scatter them around the pool as well.

• Sprinkle them on the bathroom counter or dresser top.

• After turning the jets off to the hot tub, float some rose petals there.

• Litter your love's car with the petals.

• Plant a few silk rose petals on the dresser with his change or in the cash section of his wallet.

• Send a special invitation for a romantic evening with a few rose petals inside.

• Add some to a bowl with floating candles.

• When planning a romantic getaway, surprise your love by decorating a small area with rose petals and brochures to your destination.

• Send your love an envelope full of rose petals with little messages wrote on the petals or a note saying, "I'm sending you all my love."

• Hide silk rose petals in your loves suitcase when taking a trip together.

• Put some in your pocket so you can toss on the table when eating out.

• Sprinkle them on the floor, turn the radio on and ask your love to dance.

• Use silk rose petals to lead the way on a romantic treasure hunt.

• Put them in a bottle with a passionate message, cork it and float it in the tub, sink or pool.

• Hide them under things your love is sure to move, like under a bath towel or dinner plate. When it's picked up your love will be pleasantly surprised.

• Sprinkle them in your love's lunchbox for a midday surprise.

• Fill your love's shoes with beautifully scented silk rose petals.

• Put "Romeo's Playbook: A Man's Guide for Enhancing His Relationship and Sex Life," and some new lingerie in a box, then fill with rose petals, and give it to him. Be sure to model the lingerie for him that evening.

• If you're going to be on bended knee to propose, just before you go down, pull rose petals from your pocket and sprinkle them on the spot.

• Throw them up in the air like confetti and profess your love.

• Decorate a paper bag and fasten it up like a piñata so when you gently pull the string a flap opens. Fill with silk rose petals. While standing under it, kiss your love and pull the sting. Love will shower down on you.

• Make them into love coupons, write things such as "massage feet," or "breakfast in bed," on the petals, place them into a bag and take turns pulling and redeeming the petals.

• Sprinkle silk rose petals around the lawn chairs or hammock when spending a lazy day together.

No matter which ideas you decide to use, you are sure to make a wonderful impression with rose petals.

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Valentine Breakfast in Bed

2007-01-02T11:04:00.000-08:00

So you've just woken up with your sweetheart beside you and you're feeling great. But don't get complacent: you've probably got lethal morning breath and your sweetie is about to start regretting that little slumber party. You'll want to quash any second thoughts right away. What's the best way to do that? Bust out the a.m. culinary skills, baby! Nothing impresses a date like a wonderful touch in the kitchen. If you've gotten your special someone to spend the night, then we know you'll have given some thought to the morning after - so don't screw things up now by throwing a donut at your honey and telling him/her, "Sure, I'll call."

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The prospect of cooking up some goodies in the kitchen can trigger a little panic, but let us reassure you: you can keep this as simple as you like or you can bring out the big guns. It's up to you. Adjust your efforts in relation to your need to impress. For all of the following suggestions, you're going to need to slip out of bed first to go and round up the goodies (don't forget to dress yourself, though!). Just tell your honey to keep sleeping and that you'll be back in a second. Of course, to make this work most smoothly, you should get your act together in advance. Start by Ordering a romantic Gift Basket in Advance. That means you're either going to have to evaluate with complete honesty your ability to bed this person, or you're just going to have to be prepared to eat alone, albeit very well, the next morning.

In addition to stockpiling ingredients in advance, you're going to need a certain amount of hardware to pull this off convincingly. That includes pots and pans, of course, but aside from the cookware, you'll need a stylish tray to transport the meal to your lovers mouth. No matter how delectable your food may be, carrying it into the bedroom on an old pizza box just ain't going to cut it so be sure to acquire a decent tray. Ideally, you'll be able to find one with legs that fold down to create a little table over the diner's lap.

On that tray, you really need only one extra: a bud vase and/or a beautiful gift basket - we recommend a rose. Again, buy the rose and the basket in advance unless you happen to have some lying about in your kitchen, then store it in your fridge with the stem in water. The cold will prevent the rose from opening up, and the aesthetic of a tight bud is much preferred by those in the know.

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So, with the decorations arranged, you will of course still need some basic eating utensils: cutlery and plates. You're not hosting English royalty here, so don't obsess about this - just make sure they are clean. Remnants of your last breakfast snuggle may not impress your love. For your drinks, let's try to find some champagne flutes. The only other thing you'll need is a napkin, to minimize the inevitable spills that result from eating in bed. . . and from the cavorting about you may do afterwards. Try to make the napkin a cloth one; in a pinch, a piece of paper towel will have to do but wood pulp products are just inherently tacky.

You may not always be able to fool your date into snoozing for the entire time that it will take you to concoct your ambrosia, so you may need to bring him or her appeasements while you finish preparing the main course. We suggest a few delicious snacks to hold him/her over while you work on the grand prix. Of course, if your "guest" has behaved him/herself during your preparation, you can simply bring in these snacks together with the main breakfast dish when it's ready. Each of our recommendations is fairly light, and you should avoid foisting a huge dose of anything on your amour this early in the morning. Bloated does not equal frisky.

Nutella
The Euros have really struck gold with this stuff. Nutella is a creamy chocolate spread flavored with hazelnuts. If you think it looks alarmingly like vegemite or you've just never heard of it, relax and trust us - the stuff is absolutely delicious and you cannot go wrong with it. Chocolate is the number one food for love, so you'll want to introduce some into the meal as soon as possible. We recommend buying some French or Italian loaves, preferably ones that are fresh and can be torn apart. Simply tear off a small clump of bread and spread a generous dollop of Nutella on it. That's it.

So how do you prepare this for your date? Tear off enough two-inch-squared pieces of bread to cover a regular dinner plate. Then spread a liberal dose of the Nutella over each one. If your target is hankering for some food immediately, just escort these goods into the boudoir while you're working on the rest of the meal. Otherwise, toss this plate on to your tray and hold it all for one grand presentation. Nutella is one of those curious things that is truly amazing but hasn't yet exploded across America. Why don't you be the first to introduce your amour to it? You're sure to create a fond memory.

Strawberries & Cream
How can you go wrong with these? Everybody living outside of a plastic bubble loves strawberries and cream, and you can't find many more snacks that are so simple to prepare. Let's start with the fruit. Like the rest of your ingredients, you should buy them the day before, then throw them in the fridge. For the purpose of feeding each other strawberries, you should keep them intact rather than slicing them up. That doesn't mean that you do not have to prepare them, however. In fact, although this is an easy snack to whip up, preparing strawberries does involve a few minutes of work. Either the night before or immediately before serving, rinse the strawberries to remove any possible nasties from them. Now take a knife and decapitate the little tuft of green vegetation at the top of each strawberry. It's not edible, trust us. Once the fruit is rinsed and shorn, it's ready.

Next, the cream. You can take one of two routes: either bust out the can of Readiwhip and just squirt away or make some decent stuff. The decent stuff is known formally as chantilly cream. Here's what you'll need to make it:

1 cup of whipping cream
3 tablespoons of powdered sugar
½ teaspoon of vanilla extract

In a bowl, whip the chilled cream until it stiffens up from a liquid into little peaks. Next, add the vanilla and powdered sugar slowly while you continue beating the cream. Voila!

You can serve this mix in a simple bowl, though it looks best in glass-stemmed dishes. Just fill the bowl with strawberries and top it off with sinful amounts of the cream. The idea here is for you to transport berries to target's mouth with your own fingers.

Pastries
Okay, this is the one for when you just don't have any time. You're going to need to hit a bakery to grab a few goodies, but freshness is key with baked goods, so if you take this tack, try to pull it off as soon as possible before the meal. Here's what to ask for: pain au chocolate (known roughly in this country as chocolate croissants). Again, notice the chocolate theme. These goodies are a staple morning snack in Frenchish-speaking regions of the world - Quebec, Switzerland, France but despite that, they really are delicious. Keep it simple: buy two or three and just arrange them on a plate. If you like, you can sprinkle a little flour around your face and clothes to make it look like you slaved away at baking. Done!

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French ToastScrambled Eggs
Enough stalling, let's get to the real prize. Remember: breakfast is not dinner, so you don't need four courses or anything like that. Aside from the aforementioned snacks, which are not critical, all you need is one decent plate of food. Hell, showing up with a banana in your hand will probably be more than your date expects. But let's not be rude. We're going to offer you two basic choices here - one is sweet (French toast) and the other is savory (scrambled eggs).

French Toast
This dish is a classic for anyone who likes to kick off the day with a slightly sweeter flavor. And the best thing about this one is that the finished product looks quite complex even though it is really basic to cook.
Ingredients
1 baguette (fancy bread)
6 eggs
4 tablespoons of maple syrup
1 tablespoon of butter (and a few extra slices to put on top when you're done)
1 handful of corn flakes
some powdered sugar, if that floats your boat

That's it! Some people fancy it up with other bits and pieces, but we'll keep it simple.
Slice the baguette into thin little ovals of bread, to a thickness of about a quarter of an inch. It's important not to use slices of bread that are too thick, otherwise you won't cook the interior which will lead to a soggy egg center - foul.

Crack the eggs into a bowl and mix them vigorously with a fork.
Into the eggs, add four tablespoons of maple syrup and keep mixing; this will sweeten the overall flavor of the dish, but not too much. When you serve it, you can, of course, add more syrup to your liking.

Take a small handful of corn flakes and crumble them up into small pieces and drop them into the egg-syrup mix. Weird, right? But trust us, the corn flakes give the finished product a great crispy texture that is a great solution to the problem of soggy toast.Now that the eggs are ready and you have your bread sliced, it's time to combine them.

Simply drop the pieces of bread into the egg mix, and leave them to soak up the eggs for five minutes or so. You want the egg mixture to permeate the bread entirely.
As the bread is soaking, melt a tablespoon of butter into a frying pan.

When the butter has melted, drop pieces of soaked bread into the pan.
Now all you need to do is heat the bread through to a dark golden brown on both sides. Be sure you leave the bread in the pan for a while, even if you darken it quickly because you want to make sure that the egg mixture on the inside of the bread is also cooked. Trust us, nothing is grosser than biting into a soggy egg mix. This is why we recommend slicing the bread a little thinner.

Once the slices of bread are ready, remove them from the pan and place them on a paper towel to blot up any excess butter.

While they're still warm, transfer them to a plate, and put a few dollops of butter on the slices.
You're ready to serve! We like to sprinkle a little powdered sugar and some syrup on the toast, but since people feel differently about those things, we suggest you ask your dining companion first.

Scrambled Eggs
Scrambled eggs involve many of the same ingredients as French toast, but the tenor of the dish is much more savory. So ditch the sugar and syrup. Here's what you'll need:
Ingredients
6 eggs
a few pinches of salt
a few pinches of pepper
½ cup of milk
butter
a few drops of Tabasco sauce
bread
5 sun-dried tomatoes (optional)
½ cup of feta cheese (optional)

So here we go with our home-style cookin', just like Mama used to make:
Begin by cracking the eggs into a bowl and beating them with a fork or a whisk.
Next, add a few pinches of salt and pepper and a few drops of Tabasco, mixing all the while. Now, there are different schools of thought on the milk thing. Some people like to add a few splashes of milk (half a cup) to reduce the eggy taste of the dish, but we think that milk can sometimes make the dish a little watery. We highly recommend that you experiment with this dish; do not try this out for the very first time on your plaything.That brings us to the sun-dried tomatoes and feta cheese issue. We love these ingredients and they will definitely make your dish distinctive and memorable. But some people aren't so keen on their strong flavors. So if you're scrapin' up the scrambled eggs unannounced for your sweetheart, you may not want to take this risk. Perhaps you can cook conservatively the first time and save the fireworks for the next time around. If you do decide to get crazy, you should crumble half a cup of feta into the egg mix together with five diced sun-dried tomatoes.

Once the eggs and companion ingredients have been thoroughly whisked, you should begin heating the pan.

Drop a tablespoon of butter into a pan.
When the butter is melted, pour the egg mixture into the pan. We strongly recommend that you keep the pan on a low flame because scrambled eggs are notorious for sticking to the pan.
As the eggs heat through, you'll see some fascinating exothermic reactions at work: the eggs cook in layers that you should occasionally scrape from the bottom of the pan, to allow uncooked mixture access to the heat. But be gentle and you'll be very grateful if you use a non-stick pan. Again, this takes a bit of a deft touch, so you may want to practice in advance.The eggs will be done when they have solidified up into nuggets of cooked clumps. Some people like their eggs a little runnier and others are into a drier version - the conservative way to go is to keep it dry. So keep cooking until there's no liquid egg left and your nuggets are golden brown.
Serve the eggs on top of buttered slices of bread and sprinkle with a little more salt and pepper. You're done!

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With all this food about, you're going to need something to quench your thirst. As we hinted earlier, we think that mimosas are the best romantic breakfast drinks. The fact that they are alcoholic is an added benefit that will, hopefully, work to prolong the romance of your date. Mimosas are very simple to make:

Ingredients
champagne
orange juice

Pre-meal preparation: you should chill both ingredients, but remember that it's just not good form to toss ice cubes into this mix.

Fill a champagne flute half-way with orange juice and top it off with champagne for a fifty-fifty mix.
That's it!

So you have your snacks (Nutella, strawberries, or pastries), your main dish (French toast or scrambled eggs), and libations (the mimosas) all arranged on a lovely tray with a heartwarming rose. Show up in the bedroom with this package and we guarantee you tremendous success. . . in whatever it is you're trying to do. Just don't take two hours to pull it off.

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Have a Romantic Christmas with your Partner

2006-11-15T13:02:00.000-08:00

Romance during the holidays

Holiday season is, of course, about connecting with your friends and family, and spoiling the kids with gifts, but do not forget that special man or woman in your life. This article provides tips on how to have a romantic holiday season with your partner.

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In Japan, for reasons difficult to understand, Christmas eve is a romantic holiday, such as Valentine is for us. Maybe the Japanese thought that when we refer to Christmas as a time of love it meant romance. Well let’s borrow something from the Japanese and make Christmas also as a romantic holiday besides everything else.

For couples with kids, Christmas is about the kids and often they forget to do something special for themselves. For couples without kids, the holiday becomes a time of friendship and family, which, of course, is great.

In addition to all of that, we can also have some special time as a couple.

Making Christmas special

There are many ways to celebrate romance, and we all like romance even when it is difficult to imagine amidst the many problems and challenges of life. Christmas is more than decorations and gifts, and no doubt, it a matter of unleashing the forgotten inner child. It is a time to feel, remember, and celebrate. Consequently more than anything else, it is the mindset of celebration that counts.

The most important thing is to move away from the routine and put our minds in the celebration mode.

Let's celebrate the holidays

Now that our minds are set for celebration, let your imagination run free and think what can you do with your loved one to have a special time only for the two of you. There are many activities that couples can do depending on their preferences and let us review a few ideas:

Be a child again. Would you and you loved one like to go skating? And then have a romantic dinner?

Would you like to have a special night in a hotel even if it is in your own city?

What about a romantic dinner at home or in a hotel room with champagne, chocolate, and caviar? It is not as expensive as it sounds and certainly it is grandiose. Many hotels offer packages for couples and those are generally a bargain.

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Plus, if you know you are not driving after dinner, you can truly enjoy that extra glass of champagne. Intimate spa for the two of you.

Get a romantic massage gift basket with all the products you need at hand. Then both of you exchange massages in a romantic environment with candles and great music (it does not need to be spa music)

What about dancing and going on a "date"? Or just admire the stars in a dark place while enjoying a cup of hot, high quality chocolate. You don't have to be single to go on a date. There is nothing better than dating your partner.

Wherever you go, dress your best. Do your hair, feel beautiful and use great lingerie. Remember you are celebrating; celebrating Christmas and celebrating your love for each other. Romantic gifts

The most beautiful gift that I got from my husband was a very simple, but a very special one. It was a simple inexpensive gift basket filled with lotions and oils that we both used that evening. There have been a lot of more expensive gift after that one, but few as special. Romantic gifts come from the time and interest you put into them; not from the amount of money you spend.

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2006-09-21T11:19:00.000-07:00

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How to Write a Love Note

2005-12-23T10:00:00.000-08:00

Just in time for the Holidays, we are publishing our article on Love Notes. Consider adding one of these to a Romantic Gift Basket and your lover will thank you in all kinds of fun ways.

If you've never written a love letter, it's about time you did. It's the easiest, most inexpensive way to tell your honey you love him or her. Think about the payoff -- for the cost of a card and postage, you'll get love, kisses... and possibly a little lovin!!

Step One: Selecting It
A love note can be drafted on anything made from paper. Be creative! Or try some of these tried-and-true ideas:

Valentine's Day Card: This one is a no-brainer. Go to the card store and pick out a card that will delight your honey. Does she love kittens? Is he gaga for goofiness? HallmarkTM and a dozen other companies have the perfect card for every taste.

Blank Art Card: Select an image that will appeal to him or her and spend a few minutes writing something sweet. The artistic exterior will appeal to his or her whimsy and the blank interior will give you the opportunity to be creative.

Stationery: Use a piece of pretty paper or two as the canvas for your words! Having an unlimited amount of room can help you free your creativity, letting you ramble on for pages with words of love. Trust us -- your sweetie won't mind a five-page love letter!

Construction Paper: Use a piece of heavy construction paper to create your own card. Cut out hearts and other shapes and trim an artistic edge.

Drawing Paper: Use crayons, markers or colored pencils to draw a picture for your sweetie, something he or she will treasure forever for its "inner child" value.

Now that you've picked your medium, the next step is writing your letter.

Step Two: Writing It
As in most artistic endeavors, the medium often shapes the message. The type of card or letter you selected in Step One will determine which of the following notes you'll send:

Short Note: Best for a simple card, a short note doesn't need to merely read, "love, me." Even if you only have room for a few sentences, make the most of it. Think about what your sweetie would most like to hear...a declaration of love? A reminder that he or she is the only one for you? A marriage proposal? A little effort will get you a long way!

Long Note: If you have room to write a few paragraphs, you can really pluck your lover's heartstrings with some well-thought-out words. We recommend drafting a few copies before settling on just the right combination of endearments. Tell your honey what you love most about him or her, your favorite thing he or she does, the depth of your love, plans for the future...you have room for it all!

Letter: If you really want to bare your heart, write your partner a long love letter. Sit down in a quiet spot with a pen, some paper and some romantic music. Don't worry about how to start, what to write, or how to finish -- just let your creativity start flowing and write whatever comes to you. Your partner will appreciate hearing your deepest thoughts!

Drawing: Stumped for what to say? Draw a picture! It doesn't have to be art and it doesn't have to be perfect. Grab some crayons and draw a big heart, a bunch of flowers, or a tidy little house with puffy clouds and a tree. Finish off the picture by writing a few simple words of love...and don't forget to sign it with XOXOXOXOXO!

Once your love note is written, it's time to move on to the next step: sending your love letter.

Step Three: Sending It
You might think that sending a love letter is as easy as dropping it in the mailbox or leaving it on the kitchen table, but a little effort can help your love letter really "say" something! Try these creative tips:

Romantic Stamp: If you're sending a love letter to a long-distance lover, make the stamp as romantic as the card. Select a pretty Valentine's Day-themed stamp at the Post Office and turn it upside down! An inverted stamp has long been "postal code" for "I love you."

Secret Message: Instead of leaving your billet-doux on the kitchen table, slip it in your lover's lunch, briefcase or purse, where he or she will find it sometime during the day. Imagine your sweetie's delight when he or she sees the special surprise you left!

Turn-down Service: Like fancy hotels, where you receive a mint when the maid turns down your bed for the night, your love note can inspire sweet dreams. When your sweetie is in the shower or doing last-minute before-bed chores, place your love letter and a single rose on his or her pillow. Your lover will flip for this romantic gesture!

Simple Sincerity: If you're feeling traditional, try this approach: sit your lover down, look him or her in the eye, and tell your honey you've written something special for him or her. Then hand your lover the note you've written and ready yourself for a big kiss!

Now that you know how to create the perfect love letter, get out there and get writing! Even if you don't have the time, money or energy to make a larger gesture of love, a sweet little note will let your sweetheart know how much you love him or her. What's not to love about this simple plan?

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Giving Him Oral Pleasure: How to Do and Enjoy It

2005-05-19T10:37:00.000-07:00

Fellatio, giving head, and going down on a guy all mean the same thing. Learning how to be an oral sex expert takes time and practice, as you'll need to find your personal comfort zone.

First, decide that you are willing to become an able participant. Liking this act is critical to performing your tasks with pizzazz. Even the slightest revulsion will be transmitted directly to his waiting member, and can kill the loveliness of the event.

Next, make sure that your man is fresh, clean and appealing before you get down to business. Varying your tongue and mouth positions, styles and techniques will help you find the perfect touch for his, and hopefully your, enjoyment. Oral sex is a skilled activity and an art form. The key is to like what you are doing, feel comfortable and confident, and make this a journey of pleasure for both of you. Using flavored lubricants such as cinnamon "Hot Stuff," whipped cream or chocolate syrup can add fun and zest to your experience. Licking the shaft as well as the head (corona) of the penis, along with using your hands on the (lubricated) skin around his manhood, will enhance the experience as well.

Great that you are willing to jump out of the old mold and join the ranks of the sexually courageous. Yes, it does take courage and some sound ideas for breaking your own patterns to become skilled at something you have never done before. But with some new input and a little guidance from your lover, you will reach your new sexual goal easily.

There are two tricks about giving oral pleasure to a man:

You have to feel confident and skilled at what you do, and

You will find it most successful when you, the giver, find pleasure in your actions.

For some women the concept of actually enjoying giving oral sex to a man is strange, but once you allow your mind to eroticize giving pleasure as a way to sexually stimulate yourself, you will never want to stop. Okay, maybe it is a bit too enthusiastic, but it's true that most women who do not enjoy fellatio (oral sex on a man) have not tuned in to their own pleasure receptors and, therefore, miss the feelings of arousal that so often emerge during this sexual connection.

Before you start with your lover, you can also practice.
Using a penis-shaped sex toy (yes, a banana will work too), you can gain self-confidence and test some tricks and strategies using a variety of strokes and pressures.

After a few secret sessions alone, you will feel more at ease doing it for real on your husband.

Lastly, be sure to ask the expert who goes to sleep right next to you at night (your husband, of course) to find out what exactly he likes so that you can truly enjoy turning him - and you - on.

Foreplay for Men

Often a man is stimulated sexually by what he sees -- men tend to respond to visuals, while women tend to respond more to what they hear and feel. That said, some men do need to be touched or cajoled into action more directly. The first and basic rule is to ask. Ask him what he likes, needs and wants as a turn-on. Try doing this at a quiet, intimate time (but not necessarily in the bedroom). For example, you might initiate a discussion over coffee about what each of you finds to be a turn-on. If your man needs to be touched, then any form of gentle, careful and caring caressing of his genitals, and even his nipples, should do the trick. You can do this with your hands, of course, but you can also use your mouth or even your breasts. Believe me, it will work.

New study on female sexuality reveals increased use of sexual aids by women

2005-05-16T14:12:00.000-07:00

The use of sexual aids and devices is often a sensitive and embarrassing topic for women, but a new landmark study on sexual aid usage conducted by the Berman Center and funded by an unrestricted educational grant may help change women's acceptance of sexual aids and their ability to talk more openly about use of sexual aids with their spouses, partners, and friends.

The research was unveiled in Chicago on September 11, 2004 at the second annual Women's Sexual Health State-of-the-Art Series conference in conjunction with the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine. This Continuing Medical Education program is one of the largest-ever gatherings of physicians on the topic of women's sexual health.

The study is entitled The Health Benefits of Sexual Aids & Devices: A Comprehensive Study of their Relationship to Satisfaction and Quality of Life and is one of the first to explore women's use of sexual devices and bring the topic of sexual device use "out of the closet" and into the realm of normal behavior. Knowledge Networks conducted the study by mail with a random national sample of 2,594 women, in the age range of 18 to 60, from March 5 to April 5, 2004.

The purpose of the research was threefold:

* to produce an academic study in an underreported and emerging area of interest in women's sexuality,
* to determine the instance of use of sexual aids and devices,
* to identify women's attitudes toward such aids and devices and their role in overall health and well-being.

Among the more remarkable findings from the study is the prevalence of sexual device usage. One in five women uses self-stimulation at least once a week, which would equate to more than 17.5 million women nationwide. Of the women that use self-stimulation, nearly 60 percent currently use a sexual device to do so. The research indicates that, in all, 44 percent of women between the ages of 18 and 60 have used a sexual device.

Based on the study results, the author suggests a connection between the use of sexual aids and devices with overall quality of life. Women who use sexual devices report experiencing higher levels of sexual function and satisfaction with their partners than non-users. This includes higher levels of sexual desire and arousal as well as less pain during and after intercourse. Sexual device users also find it easier to reach orgasm when compared to non-users, who tend to have moderate success. With these findings, we can safely suggest that all of these characteristics were significantly correlated with higher levels of quality of life in the respondents.

In addition, the study also reveals that women overwhelmingly believe that using a sensual enhancement product is nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, nine out of 10 study participants report being comfortable talking to their partners about their sexual device use. Most women view sexual devices as a complement to their sexual relationships and not a substitute for their partner.

Despite a popular misconception, it is women who are in relationships -- not singles -- who are most likely to use a sexual aid. Of the study participants, 78 percent of women who use or have used a sexual device were in a relationship. Of the women who were most likely to use a self stimulation device, 43 percent were living with their partners, but not married; and 35 percent were in a relationship, but not living together.

"The research findings only confirm what we have been telling couples for years," said renowned sex therapist and educator Dr. Laura Berman, who is also director of the Berman Center in Chicago. "Using sexual aids and devices is a normal and healthy part of life, but it is clear that we still have a long way to go. Many women don't know what's right for them, where to find sexual aids, or how to use them. In my practice, I educate women about sexual aids and prescribe devices tailored to their individual needs."

The study findings indicate that approximately 75 percent of women purchase sexual aids and devices at specialty stores, although an increasing number of women are opting for the privacy and safety offered by Web-based stores.
The study found that top reasons women purchase sensual products online were:

* Anonymity - 80 percent (of respondents)
* Convenience - 75 percent Less
* Embarrassing - 71 percent
* Ability to Take One's Time - 64 percent Larger
* Selection - 42 percent

More and more women and couples today are choosing to shop online because of the convenience, selection, and most importantly, privacy. Over 70 percent of our customers are women, and sales in our store are up 34 percent year-after-year. This trend, combined with the important findings in this latest research, suggests we are only in the infancy of a new sexual awakening for women.

Products of Interest:
Rabbit Pearl Vibrator

Space Explorer Vibrator

Lanas Ladybug

Vibrating Lipstick

Kama Sutra Massage Oil

Kama Sutra Bedside Box

Jelly Waterproof Vibrator

Waterproof Rabbit Vibrator

Mega Mite Waterproof Vibrator

Kama Sutra Game

Kama Sutra Gift Tin

Kama Sutra Honey Dust

Kama Sutra Lover's Paint Box

Kama Sutra Massage Cream
Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm

Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea

Kama Sutra Weekender Kit

Kama Sutra Treasure Trove

Kama Sutra Oil of Love

Kama Sutra Lubricants

Kama Sutra Love Essentials

Celebrating Great Moms

2005-04-29T08:44:00.000-07:00

Mom,

You've seen me grow through the years. All the sleepless nights just to wipe a tear from my innocent face. All the love and care you put into every warm bottle or hot meal I ever ate. We shared in our moment of tears together, when I cut myself for the first time to when I rode my bike and took a nasty spill... there was always a caring, kind face that could always make things better. That was Mom.

When I became ill, you were the one that would sit by my side until I could tackle the world once more. When I gave something my all and wanted to quit who was there with words of encouragement. Mom was.

You believed in me. You made me realize what can be done if you set your mind to it. How great of a person I am...just like my Mom.

As we get older we tend to forget what our Mom had done for us. So before you get on the bus or in a car, tell you mom how great you think you are. Because of your Mom.

When I became ill, you were the one that would sit by my side until I could tackle the world once more. When I gave something my all and wanted to quit who was there with words of encouragement. Mom was.

You believed in me. You made me realize what can be done if you set your mind to it. How great of a person I am...just like my Mom.

As we get older we tend to forget what our Mom had done for us. So before you get on the bus or in a car, tell you mom how great you think you are. Because of your Mom.

Six Types of Sex Women Enjoy

2005-04-24T15:34:00.000-07:00

This article was intended for men, however I believe the ladies can use this article to figure out what they are looking for and let their guy know!!

How can you keep the dreaded bedroom boredom from setting in with your current lover? You must never let the sex become routine. It's easier than you think; you just have to add different styles of lovemaking to your repertoire, and a lover who's willing to go the distance.

So what are these different styles and when are they appropriate? From romantic to animalistic, read on and find out how to keep the flame burning for good.

Type 1 - Seductive Sex
Chances are that your first few sexual encounters with your woman will revolve around seduction. In other words, you're going to do your damndest to charm her right into your bed.

Look deep into her eyes and "sensualize" conversations in order to seduce her mind and get the sexual energy between you flowing.

Once you have her eating out of the palm of your hand, take her in your arms and kiss her. Lead her into the bedroom and slowly undress her. Lay her down and make love to her while keeping eye contact. Maintain a constant, steady pace and refrain from using too many sound effects. After all, you're the strong, silent type tonight.

This type of set-up is also good for when you've been together for a while and want to feel like the stud that you are, and want to remind her of that too.

Type 2 - Romantic Sex
This type of sex is good for when you're both relaxed and not pressed for time, such as during a weekend getaway. It's time to enjoy the fact that neither of you has anything to do but enjoy each other's bodies.

Here's your chance to give her what she wants: a romantic setting and seemingly endless foreplay. Light candles, put on some sexy music (it's subjective), open up a bottle of Merlot, and caress all of her erogenous zones, including her thighs, butt, back, neck, soles of her feet, and breasts.

The ensuing sex should be slow and rhythmic, and allow both parties to enjoy every sensation to its fullest. Basically, it should feel like it's going in slow motion.

Don't forget, she also wants to get wild with you...

Type 3 - Animalistic Sex
Other times, you are just so hot for each other that prolonging foreplay just seems like agony, like when you're at a club and get incredbily turned on, but have to wait until you get home. Once you unlock that front door, it's time for animalistic sex.

Grab her and kiss her hard, and rip each other's clothes off, it doesn't even matter if some of them stay on. Go ahead and do it doggy style on the living room floor, or prop her up on the kitchen counter if you so desire. Do it fast and hard. Grab her hair by the roots, yell if you feel like it; just be sure to check your inhibitions at the door.

Type 4 - Passionate Sex
Perhaps you were away on business and haven't seen her for a week, or maybe you had a huge fight and need to make up; the point is you're burning with desire for each other and you want to devour each other.

The resulting sex should be intense and deeply felt. Hold on to her body and make love to her like she's all the woman you could ever want or need.

Type 5 - Quickie Sex
This one's great if you're pressed for time, stressed out, or in an unusual location that you really shouldn't be having sex in, such as in your office, or on a somewhat secluded beach.

This one's quick and to the point; you want an orgasm and you want it now.

Type 6 - Kinky Sex
If you and your woman have been together for a while and trust each other, and are looking to spice things up, it may just be time to get kinky.

Get out the scarves and tie her hands behind her head or to the bedpost, and make her your slave. Or blindfold her and keep her guessing what you'll do next. Get your hands on some edible body paints and make her body your canvas. Tease her with a feather. Or shock her system with ice cubes or candle wax. Spank her.

You can also get her to wear some sexy lingerie and do a little strip tease for you. She can be your naughty school girl, cowgirl, French maid; whatever turns you on.

As long as you and your woman have compatible sex drives and a sense of adventure when it comes to your sexual escapades, you should be able to lead a mutually fulfilling sex life and prevent the flame from dying. Just remember to switch it up and spice it up.

Products of Interest:
Kama Sutra Massage Oil
Kama Sutra Bedside Box
Kama Sutra Game
Kama Sutra Gift Tin
Kama Sutra Honey Dust
Kama Sutra Lover's Paint Box
Kama Sutra Massage Cream
Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm
Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea
Kama Sutra Weekender Kit
Kama Sutra Treasure Trove
Kama Sutra Oil of Love
Kama Sutra Lubricants
Kama Sutra Love Essentials

Other Articles of Interest:

How to Take a Sensual Bath
How to Give a Sensual Massage
Refresh your Relationship
Keep Your Romance Alive

How to Use Lubricants with Sex Toys

2005-04-19T11:43:00.000-07:00

Lubricant -- How Do I Use It with Sex Toys?

Have you ever grabbed your favorite toy, settled in for an erotic good time and thought, "Is it okay to use my lube with this?" Or maybe you're purchasing your first toy and aren't sure why or how to lubricate it. At Romance365, we think about this stuff all the time -- because part of our job is to provide you as much information as possible.

Always Use LubeThe first thing to keep in mind is that every sex toy and sensual aid could use a little lubrication. Whether you're rubbing against it, putting it into you, or putting you into it, you should be using a lubricant.

Lubricants make sex toys not only feel better, but also more safe to use. Think about what happens when you're having sex: the body creates natural lubrication so you and your partner don't hurt each other with too much friction. The same logic applies to using toys, either with a partner or during solo play. Really, there's no such thing as too much lubrication. Even if you lubricate naturally, a dab of extra lubricant on your toy is a highly recommended addition. It's better to be safe and slippery than sorry and sore!

Pick the Right Lube
Lubricants come in three basic formulations: water-based lube, which is the most common and most versatile, silicone-based lube, which is similar to water-based lube but waterproof, and petroleum-based lube, which is great for anal play. We only carry Kama Sutra Lubricant because they offer four different types. We have described them on the Kama Sutra Lubricant Page.

Water-Based Lubricants
Water-based lubes, may be used on virtually any vibrator or toy. An exception may be toys for anal play, as you may want a lubricant that also contains a desensitizer -- this is purely preference, of course.

The greatest advantage of water-based lube is the easy cleanup: You simply rinse off the toy with warm water, and voila! The lube is gone! However, this "no muss, no fuss" quotient also has a down side -- if you like to use waterproof toys (during a bath, in a hot tub, what have you), a water-based lubricant will rinse right off -- which really defeats the whole purpose of using lube!

You definitely want to use a water-based lube with anything made of silicone. A silicone lube used on a silicone toy will destroy the toy. Silicone is essentially made up of tiny glass beads; when these beads rub together, they will merely scratch one another other, wreaking havoc on the silicone toy. So stick with a water-based lube for your premium silicone toys, and use silicone lube for the purpose for which it was intended!

Silicone-Based Lubricants
Silicone lubes are the perfect choice for sensual fun in the water. If you love your waterproof toys (or just love having sex in the water), you and a silicone lubricant, will be lifetime companions! Of course, a silicone-based lube is not as readily available at your corner drugstore as a water-based lube, but fortunately, you can get plenty here at Romance365.

Another "pro" for silicone lubricant is that it lasts longer and can be easily revived after a lengthy encounter with your favorite vibrating friend, just by adding a little water or saliva to it. Silicone lubes never really get absorbed or evaporate the way a water-based lube may. On the other hand, this also means that getting your toys (and yourself) clean will take a little more effort, but it certainly doesn't need to be sandblasted off. A good soapy wash should do the trick.

Petroleum-Based Lubricants
Petroleum-based lube should really only be used with non-latex anal toys or for male masturbation. These lubes are great for anal play because they're generally thicker than other types of lubricant, making entry easier. A good one to try is Anal Eze as it's petroleum-based and also contains a desensitizer.

Do not use a petroleum-based lube with anything made of latex -– toys, condoms, or other products -– as the petroleum will destroy the latex on contact. Petroleum also tends to irritate a woman's vagina, so we don't recommended this type of lubricant for intercourse or for use with any sort of vibrator or dildo intended for vaginal penetration.

Using Lube
Now that you've taken a closer look at lube, you're probably wondering about the best way to apply it. Again, this is really personal preference, but here are our tips for the easiest and least-messy way.

Simply pour a small amount -- about the size of a dime -- onto your fingers and then spread it on your toy and yourself.

Rub your fingers over the head and down the shaft if it's a vibrator or dildo. Be sure to lube any other clitoral or anal stimulators on your toy, as well.

Rub the lubricant onto your sex toy so that it's slick, but not dripping. Be careful -- you don't want to rub so much that the lubricant is absorbed in your hand, leaving the toy high and dry!
If you are male and using a masturbation sleeve, you'll want to apply lube to your fingers and then slide them around the entrance and down the inside of the sleeve. Since most sleeves have a small hole in the other end, you probably don't want to just pour the lube into it -- you can always add more if you need to.

If you or your toy become dry during use, simply add more lube.

How Much is Enough?
You also don't want to "over apply" or "over rub" the lubricant, particularly on a toy. The amount of lube you use is a personal preference. The general rule of thumb is that if it doesn't slide in comfortably, you probably need more lubricant! Some people like their toys as lubricated as possible, while others enjoy only enough lubrication to reduce friction to a point of comfort. We recommend that if you're experimenting with a toy or lubricant for the first time, try starting with an amount about the size of a dime and keep adding lube until you're happy. You'll figure out how much you like soon enough!

On the Body
Much like massage oils, if you're lubing yourself or a lover's body part, do not pour the lube directly from the bottle onto bare skin! Pour the lubricant into the palm of your hand and warm it to body temperature before applying it to warm skin. This rule also applies using lubricant on your toys. After all, you wouldn't want to get a chill because you applied a cold lubricant to your favorite dildo!

Sharing Toys
If you're sharing a toy with your partner, just lube everything! Well, actually, be sure to lubricate the penis it will be on, any stimulating pieces on the ring (bullet, animal-shaped head, what have you) and the person receiving the action. Of course, you don't need to lubricate the entire person, just the receiving sexual organ!

Now grab your erotic assistant of choice and be secure in the knowledge that you're using the perfect lubricant for you and your toy!

Products of Interest:
Kama Sutra Massage Oil
Kama Sutra Bedside Box
Kama Sutra Game
Kama Sutra Gift Tin
Kama Sutra Honey Dust
Kama Sutra Lover's Paint Box
Kama Sutra Massage Cream
Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm
Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea
Kama Sutra Weekender Kit
Kama Sutra Treasure Trove
Kama Sutra Oil of Love
Kama Sutra Lubricants
Kama Sutra Love Essentials

Other Articles of Interest:
How to Take a Sensual Bath
How to Give a Sensual Massage
Refresh your Relationship
Keep Your Romance Alive

How to Strip for Your Lover

2005-04-15T14:56:00.000-07:00

Have you ever watched Striptease and thought, "Why the hell am I watching this movie?" And then, perhaps, "I've always wanted to spin around a pole like that." Would you be surprised to know you're not alone?

The truth is, most women I've talked to have, at one time or another, fantasized about being a stripper. Many have even tried out some moves on their lovers. Sound like fun? It is! A striptease is a great way to show your partner how sexy you think you are, and believe me, he or she will agree.

Step 1: Preparation I'm not going to tell you that a spontaneous strip will not make jaws drop. I think we can all agree that anything that involves you removing your own clothes in front of your sweetie will be applauded. However, if you really want to treat your "customer" to something special, plan an actual striptease show.

Before the music even begins, well, you must pick it. Obviously, keep your and your partner's tastes in mind, but know that it's not quite going to have the same effect if you're seductively removing clothing to, say, something by Hanson or Stryper. Try to choose something that's got a slow-ish tempo so you can take your time and really tease. Just make sure it's not too slow as the song may end and you'll only have a couple of pieces off. Practically anything from the "9 1/2 Weeks" soundtrack is great -- a cliché, maybe, but it works.

Next, you have to plan what you're going to wear. Now there may be some shopping involved here, but you won't have to spend much money. In fact, don't -- there's a good chance that once you're down to your undergarments, they will be ripped right off your body! Start from your bottom layer and work your way out. Your final "outfit" is the showstopper -- this is a strip TEASE, remember -- so get something you KNOW will drive your honey mad. It can be a tiny bra and g-string combo, maybe a corset -- whatever makes you feel sexy and desirable.

Once that's accomplished, you can pretty much pick whatever's in your closet for the outer layer. A good, "naughty" choice is always the Lolita-esque, schoolgirl look, but you may choose anything really. You could go the button-down business route -- a tie would later make a great prop (think looping behind his or her head to pull it into your breasts; things along those lines).

The sky's the limit!

Finally, accessories. This includes everything you might need for a theme (glasses, hats, ties, etc.) as well as the all-important thigh highs (or garter belt and stockings) and stiletto heels. A word of caution here: make sure you can actually move around and dance in these shoes. While I realize that stilettos don't generally come in heights under three inches, some are easier to maneuver in than others. If you don't happen to have any in your closet, ask a friend.

Other accessories that are fun to include are long necklaces (they look amazing when you're down to the essentials -- trust me), long gloves and feather boas.

Step 2: Practice You're not auditioning for the next Star Search so I don't mean that you need to choreograph a huge number. Simply listen to the music you've chosen a few times and move to it. It doesn't have to be spins and splits, just movement. Once you're comfortable with that, do a dry run with your costume on to figure out when and what you'll be removing. Again, this is a tease, so make it slow, make it sexy. This will also give you an opportunity to rethink your costume if anything is too difficult to unbutton or unhook -- you don't want your come-hither dance to turn into a Chevy Chase pratfall.

Step 3: Showtime! Do not be nervous. This is fun. If it causes you any undue embarrassment or discomfort, then you shouldn't be doing it. I understand there will be some butterflies -- it's perfectly natural, but realize that if you feel seductive and desirable, so will your audience. Plus, you're performing for your lover who (hopefully) already finds you seductive and desirable!

If you can, dim the lights a bit. Barring that, turn out the lights, but light lots of candles. Strut your beautiful self out there and start your music.

If you really want to drive him or her to distraction, climb up on a coffee table or anything that puts you up a little higher. (Please, please, if you do this, make sure your stage is sturdy ahead of time. I think we can all imagine how quickly a trip to the ER would kill the mood.) Merely sway suggestively for a bit without actually removing anything. Do remember to turn from time to time, especially if your sweetheart is particularly enamored with your backside. Do a little booty shaking. If your hair is up, let it down and softly whip it back and forth. Check the look on your lover's face. Has the mouth slackened a bit? Then it's time to move on to the good stuff.

Start with something innocuous -- a glove is great. Very slowly push the glove down your arm, then with your teeth, suggestively pull at the cloth on each finger. Once your glove is loose enough to pull off, do so, but again, slowly. Then throw it at your lover. Please don't wing it at him or her; it sort of ruins the mood. At any rate, you may then move on to whatever you choose with two exceptions: your thigh highs (or garter and stockings) and your shoes. These should stay on until you're down to your dainties. I must ask you to trust me again.

No matter what you're removing, the key is to do it as slowly as possible. Tease. Unbutton your blouse and only let your shoulder or a part of your back show before your shirt makes it all the way off. Flash your partner, then quickly close your blouse. Spin around to give him or her several tantalizing angles. Then do the same with your skirt; simply lift it to expose a thigh, then quickly flip it up in back for a peek-a-boo shot of your butt. Make your partner wait. And always toss the removed garment at your captivated audience.

When you are finally free of the confines of your outfit, continue to move and dance seductively. This is when the long necklace comes in quite handy. Not only will it sway beautifully, but it will also draw attention to your breasts, which is a good thing. Now this may sound ridiculous, but honestly, your lover may not know what to focus on and you will then laugh from his or her eyeballs jittering out of their sockets.

You are now down to your underpinnings, shoes and stockings. Let your lover enjoy this for a few moments before you tantalizingly, excruciatingly, slowly roll each stocking down your leg (obviously, if you're going the garter belt route, you'll want to undo those first). Try propping your leg on something that's close by your sweetie, like the arm of the sofa or chair, while you're doing this. Once you get to your ankle, slide your shoe off long enough to get the stocking off, then put your shoes back on and continue dancing.

Now that your sweetie is a quivering mass of jelly, climb down from the stage or slowly make your way over to him or her, and tease for a few more moments before surprising them with an impromptu lap dance. Or, if you'd rather, merely strut into the bedroom. It may take them a moment to register, but I can guarantee they will be in shortly!

Believe me, once you've done a striptease for your favorite playmate, you'll want to do more. And I can guarantee he or she will want you to, as well. The main point to remember is this is a fun exercise that will titillate both of you. Plus, it'll be something you can talk about for years to come and even plan new shows together. So go buy some hot undies and get stripping!

How to Buy a Romantic Wedding Gift

2005-04-14T12:48:00.000-07:00

Wish the lucky pair well with a heartfelt and romantic gift. Whether you need a gift for the bridal shower, bachelorette party or the wedding itself, we have some beautiful items that will please the bride and groom.

We specialize in romantic gifts for all occasions and a wedding is no exception. If you want to stay on the traditional side, take a look at our engraved crystal gifts. Each item is personalized with the bride and grooms name and date/year of the wedding. What a wonderful way to remember their special day. We have a wide variety of fonts and graphics to choose from.

Now if you want to be a bit more romantic, think about our Kama Sutra Line. We have a beautiful kama sutra gift tin that is perfect for the newly weds!! We also have smaller kama sutra treasure trove tins and our very popular kama sutra bedside box!!

Our Ultimate Romance Basket is a big hit for any wedding or bridal shower. It is filled to the brim with everything the couple needs! Have it gift-wrapped, and include an enclosure card with your address to simplify the couple's thank-you writing.

Address the gifts to the bride before the wedding, and to both the bride and groom afterward. Send your gift instead of bringing it to the wedding; this is much easier for the wedding party. Most stores will mail it for you, especially if you order it online or by telephone. We offer shipping and we will gift wrap!

If you prefer to give money instead of a gift, present it on the day of the ceremony. Make a check payable to both the bride and groom.

Tips: As a rule of thumb, refrain from buying a print by your favorite artist or an antique cake platter you love unless you are absolutely positive the couple will also love it.

Consider purchasing a large gift or basket with a group of friends.

The Art of Kissing

2005-04-13T11:46:00.000-07:00

The fine sexual art of kissing can be one of the most pleasurable experiences you will share with your partner, whether you are lovers or just like each other a lot. It's also one of the first truly sexual experiences that most people encounter as they are growing up.

Of course there's different types of kissing, but for the purpose of this site, I'll be talking about the type of kissing that carries sexual undertones. This means the pecks you give your mother don't count as far as this article is concerned.

If you've never kissed anyone sexually, you might want to go ahead and read this article because this information just might come in handy some day. If you have, great, but maybe you'll learn something new that will be sure to spice up your romantic encounters. Kissing is a natural act, but many people are unable to just sit back and relax and cause their partners to see stars with their excellent kissing skills. Some people will be great at kissing, and others may never be more than average no matter how much they learn about the art. This doesn't really matter though, as long as you can learn to feel confident and be sure that your partner feels great about sharing this experience with you. There are several key points you can learn that will help you accomplish this:

The first key to becoming a better kisser is to think about how you feel during the whole kissing experience. This may seem selfish, but kissing is a highly reciprocal act. This means that if you feel like the kiss sucks, then the person you are kissing probably does too. Focus on making the other person feel good by relaxing. This includes your whole body, your head and neck, and especially your lips. Loosen up a bit and try to let things just flow. Once you get to know your partner better, you'll start learning their perks and this includes how to sweep them off their feet when you kiss them. If you don't, you won't have to worry for long because they'll be gone and you'll have to start over with someone new.

The second important key is the flow of events during a kissing experience. You don't want to just attack someone like a sandwich with your mouth wide open, your tongue hanging out, ripping wet with anticipation. If you do, the whole act will be awkward for you and your partner and afterwards you'll have a hard time proving yourself worthy of your partner's lips during future encounters.

Approach the whole situation just as you would a strange explosive device that you are about to attempt to disarm. Move in slow, with great care and gentle caution. Initial contact should be lips only, firm yet gentle. After a few cycles of lip kisses with maintained contact, you may want to open your mouth slowly and move in with your tongue (more on this a little later). This stage will probably vary greatly depending on the point in your relationship with this person.

A first kiss probably isn't going to be nearly as heart-felt and as passionate as one with someone you've kissed often, but you'll know where you are and how to handle the intensity. React to how your partner is kissing. If they speed up, speed up with them. If they slow down, do the same. Try to synchronize your actions with each other but be sure to pay attention so you don't ruin the whole experience. Eventually you'll learn to match and complement your partner's kissing rhythms so that the pleasure and good feelings you get from the kisses are as desirable as possible.

There is much more to a kiss than just lips and tongues. To experience the full pleasure of the act you have to be resourceful!

Don't forget to use your hands, your nose, and even your breath to elevate your passionate kissing ventures to a new level. A woman loves to be touched while she's being kissed. Use your hands to gently caress her cheek, her back, the tops of her arms, and especially her collarbone and jawbone right before and during the kiss. Rubbing noses is also extremely pleasurable, and can cause some sexual giggles between the two of you. Giggles are always a sure sign that you're making them feel special. Using your breath is also important.

Providing your partner with extremely light, warm feelings on their face, neck, and mouth can be an extremely arousing feeling. I remember the feeling from exchanging breath with my partner through our noses. This was very erotic and I know it helped to get both of our sexual juices flowing a bit more rapidly. This sensual foreplay can really enhance a kiss and make your partner feel great.

Wait, you say, I haven't said anything about the actual kiss yet! All I can give in this area is some really general advice, you'll have to learn what is right for you and your partner on your own. Relax your face and lips, take things slow, and open your mouth enough for some explosive tongue interaction, but not too much. Don't stick it out either, you want to do that while your lips are locked. Angle your head slightly, you don't want anything awkward to happen when your heads approach. Once you are actually French kissing your partner, feel free to explore with your tongue. You may want to try using gentle breaths to some effect, but however you do it, just remember to breathe! Feeling the wet, warm feeling of someone else's tongue pressed and interacting with your own is definitely something you'll not soon forget, and through practice and experience you'll come up with your own little pleasurable ways of kissing your lover.

Besides just mouth to mouth action, you'll probably want to try kissing other areas of your partner's body at some point in the relationship, depending where you are right now. Gentle kissing or nibbling of the earlobes can be extremely sensual for either gender. Just as women love to be touched and caressed, you may also find your partner loves to be kissed in the same sensitive areas as mentioned earlier. The most affectionate and most sensual type of kiss I remember giving a past lover was one on her forehead. I took my hand and placed it softly on the back of her head, slowly drew her toward me, and gave her a single, slow kiss on her forehead. Every time I did this her reactions always showed me that she knew how much I cared for her, and for us this was one extremely intimate act that meant a lot to both of us.

Through all of the technical details of sexual kissing, just remember that most important aspect is letting your partner know how much you care for them and making them feel good. If you falter at first, with time and experience you'll get better. Feel free to experiment, learn what they like and how they like to be kissed by varying your methods. Once you reach the point of being able to communicate on a completely non-verbal and spiritual level while you kiss your partner, you'll know you've been doing something right.

It's all about Romance

2005-04-11T11:02:00.000-07:00

Hello Readers,

We are going to start offering you articles on anything and everything romantic. If you have a suggestion, please feel free to post. We will try to put up new articles daily.

Read our first posting:

Six Types of Sex Women Enjoy

Stay tuned ..................

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