Communicate to find more romance.Thats right - communication plays a very important part in creating or keeping romance alive. I'm sure we have all been there - we sit and look at our mate and have absolutely nothing to talk about! It's not that we don't love them - we just don't communicate anymore.
Think about how many times a day you converse with your mate? This might be via cell phone texting, e-mailing, the telephone itself or in face to face sharing with one another.
What is the usual energy behind your communicating? Does it tend to bored or “same old, same old”? If so, that dulled energy can begin to seep into your relationship leaving either or both of you wanting more.
It doesn't matter what you are talking with your partner about. What is perhaps most important is how you are communicating. When your energy and engagement with one another are filled with passion and excitement, you can connect in ways that bring you even closer together and keep your spark strong.
My advice - try playing a romantic game! Now I know it sounds silly - and you say - I'm too old for that No you are not! Romance can be achieved by getting to know your lover. Games help, and there are alot of them to choose from.
Stay tuned for more tomorrow ..........
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